Honor student who sued parents returns home --by Shaw

         The article,”honor student who sued parents returns home”, introduces a student who lives in New Jersey was left home and she still want her parents pay for her tuition. Then she sues her parents. And the court reject her request, but the court still scheduled a court meeting to consider other situation. In this case, the student refused to obey her parents’ order and moved out of home, but she still wanted her parents pay the money. In the home, her parents told the media their daughter was not courtesy and want do anything which is just she want. From the girl side, she said her family forced her to play basketball to get scholarship. She was not satisfied with her parents.

         From the article, this situation may harm to believe, but the conflict between parents and children are constantly existed. In some parts, children think parents are too hard to them; parents are always push children to do something which parents believed is great for children; however, children are refusing for his life are controlled by other people even the people are his parents. Thus, that is why now there are global situation about the relationship between parents and children is nervous.

         However, because parents think their purposes are good and they have much more life experience than children, so they believe sometimes to force their children to some certain things is fine. In this term, they may neglect the human nature is free and children have own will. But in the children situation, they can not know they do something which has not any positive effect for his life. Some things which people can do is not benefit for life. People should control his will. Some children may learn experience from some things and then back to regular life routine. Notwithstanding, some children miss their life goal due to they refuse to accept their parents advices.

         That is why I saw parents class in UCR extension. I think whatever the children want. If the children don’t have a correct value about life and world, parents shoulder plenty of responsibility of this. Because parents are children’s first teach, and parents are children’s harbor. Parents bring the children come to this world, whatever the children are some kind of strict to company with, parents must take care of their children. To be the parent is not a easy thing, I know my parents raise me hardly. They take care of everything about me. So, in the UCR extension, the parents class is a seriously thing. The course can teach parents basic skill to teach children and how to handle some issues between them.

         Back to the story, from the end of story, there won’t be a happy ending of story, but it is a good lesson for every family. Even though children have some excellent education chance and level, parents also should pay attention to their children’s mental. Parents should ensure their children have a positive life. Also, children need to try their best to understand their parents.

source: http://news.yahoo.com/honor-student-sued-parents-returns-home-151953137.html